story of my life.
We have to remember that while people strive to change for the better, people can and will change for the worse. Nobody is who they seem.
The most beautiful woman in the world can look at herself in the mirror and truly believe she is ugly. And that man who once looked at u like u were his world one day, can just as easily look at u as his bootycall the next.
It gets confusing. And we easily get so blinded by love and clouded by negative thoughts that the bigger picture is never in plain view. But it is imperative for us to differentiate who we are dealing with. It’s vital to our sanity, and most of all - our hearts.
So before u let that next tear roll down that cheek of urs, remind urself that u are about to cry for a man who no longer exists - a complete stranger. This man is everything he loathed, everything he talked shit about, and everything he swore he’d never be. Still don’t believe me? BELIEVE IT. ‘Cuz this man is not worth ur tears, and the man who is? The man he used to be? Well he would never, ever make u cry to begin with.
I’m sure the guy who wore fake eyelashes for u and only u just to make u laugh is still in there somewhere. But let him go find himself, ‘cuz it ain’t up to u to resurrect the dead. ‘And by then u’ll have found that amazing woman u swear has disappeared as well
im ALWAYS reading this girls blogs, cuz they’re always inspirational &&&ALWAYS sounds like shit i’ve been through. i’m always trying to give the right advice to people especially to my girls that i hold close to my heart, cuz i care so much i want them to realize what they deserve. i want them to see what i see and learn what i learned. i always want to prevent a brokenheart before the pieces are TOO hard to put back together. i know what its like to pick up my own pieces, i’ve never had the advice i give, or advice in general to help me open my own eyes. it took me a long LONG time to be the way i am today &sometimes i wish there was someone there to help me with that &talk to me as i go through it.
but if you like the blog, she has more! ‘girlsarethenewboys.blogspot.com’ hella on blast, but this girl is dope.
